First, physically I don't feel old. Although I just turned 35, I don't feel like I look it (generally, people are surprised if I tell them how old I am). A few things though made me think that perhaps I SHOULD feel old.
I distinctly remember at last year's PSU homecoming game walking around campus and seeing people with buttons..."Class of 1996" (hey, I started HS a year early so I graduated from college at 21). They all looked sooo old. I kept asking DH, OMG, do I look THAT old? He kept laughing and saying no. I wanted to exchange my button.
At my disasterous prenatal visit last week, the doctor used the term AMA, "advanced maternal age". She said there could be additional concerns and may do additional testing later on in the pg. Well, I don't have to worry about that currently, but I'm sure next time my maternal age will even be more advanced.
I'm trying to find some cute new shoes. I usually try to make at least one good, solid purchase each season. Something that's trendy but not so trendy it won't last beyond a season. Something though that could be a little expensive, if it's worth it. I can't find anything! What's up with these peep-toe boots? Or over the heel boots? I'm sorry, but I have trouble even wearing my high (almost to the knee boots) to school because EVERYONE (kids, adults, etc) calls them "hooker boots". Even those who wear them. I'm also not getting the "feminine details" with all the flouncy looking bows and such strategically placed on purple, stilleto type shoes that also have a platform base at the ball of the foot. What?? I'm a teacher in a rural district, so pumps don't really work. That doesn't meant I walk in cow shit in the halls or anything, but if I wear a heel it can't be a crazy heel (so, I don't want to appear taller than 5'6" or anything!)
So I guess I'm wondering...am I missing something this year? Any suggestions?
I don't get the peep-toe boots either. Um, what's the point? LOL! You are wearing boots to keep WARM not show your toes. And I agree with all of the really high heels and frilly shoes. I can't wear them to work either. I'd look so out of place. If you find anything good, let me know.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.bandolino.com/Jenkins-/720625402378,default,pd.html
ReplyDeleteHere's what I bought...and I found them on sale!
Oh Kelly - I *totally* get you! Totally!
ReplyDeleteI tried to go shopping yesterday and I nearly had a heart-attack when I was in the shoe section. I love,love,love shoes but I can't believe some of the trendy crap that is being slung out by the designers for the Fall lines. IMO, it's a sad twist on all of the 80's fashions. Good luck on your shopping spree!
I haven't liked the fashion in shoes for the last few years. I don't get the bow thing either. I guess if you're old, I'm old too. You should tell the dr to take the AMA off your chart, you're not old enough for that yet.
ReplyDeleteI know! Me either...and I really, really want to buy some new shoes!
ReplyDeleteThanks about the non-AMA too. I agree! I had a hard enough time with 35!
I just wanted to say I am really sorry if my comment on your last post offended you or hurt your feelings. That was not my intention at all. I was trying to be hopeful for you, not hurtful. I know how hard and painful it is to lose a friend because of IF. My experience caused me a 21-year friendship, and I still struggle with it to this day. It was almost 2 years ago now. Please accept my sincerest appoligies if I said the wrong thing.
ReplyDeleteOh no, please don't feel badly. I felt badly because I didn't really say I had the m/c in the post and I didn't want you to feel badly. First I replied to your post and then I just hit delete because I wasn't sure what to do. I hope that I didn't upset you...and please accept my apologies too.
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I am so, so sorry. My comment must have been painful. My heart is absolutely breaking for you and I am trying not to cry. I can only imagine how horrible you must feel about the whole thing (the m/c and losing the friend). I wish you all the best, and will be thinking of and praying for you.
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Oh Kelly, don't forget to post pics of the shoes you buy. I *heart* shoes. :)
ReplyDeleteand I was 37 when I finally got PG. Almost 38 when I delivered. AMA..shhhmmmsh! Doesn't mean a thing!